RAHHHRRRR

Friends are so stupid!!!! They think that honesty is a lie, and that lies are honesty. Also they think they are so mature in telling others to "grow up", well i'm sorry, i disagree, i'm only saying something because i care, and i think you need to grow up and stop being such a turd.

Oh so typical sayings.

Just so you know (dwi) or (DWI) are equivalent to "Deal With It", i just took the first letter of each word and put then in parenthesis, aren't i clever.

We have probably all heard these words at some point, and if you haven't heard them, you will. And it will suck. It will annoy you and make you want to rip your hair out. Yesterday, both of these things were said to me, this is not verbatim it is a generality (dwi) -

1 - "All teenagers go through this"

2 - "It's Complicated"

As far as #1, mom, dad, i KNOW that all teenagers do this, it is not necessary to tell me, trust me, i KNOW. For clarification, i was asking for more independance (very over-bearing parents), and was told that this is something all teenagers go through and that they will still control every aspect of my life because that's what parents do. (i will paste the letter thingy i wrote them at the bottom of the post)
Anyway, everything i wrote in my letter thing, i believe to be true. their nagging is becoming detrimental to my schooling. (yes i get the irony that i am posting a blog, dwi) they are being insufferable. And by telling me this is a "stage that all teenagers go through" they succesfully annoyed the heck out of me. I realize they are parents and that they feel it is there "duty" to nag, i get it, i really do, but they need to lighten up. Also, i do not want to be told that "ALL" teenagers go throught this, they don't! Just try to see my point, gosh... =P

Ok, as far as #2. another unfortunate inevitable happening. since yesterday the solution has been solved, but the phrase is still annoying. "it's complicated". Have you ever had a friend who you've known for many years, but then they start to feel attraction towards another individual (for those of you who don't understand what i'm saying - when your old friend gets a crush). Anyway, you suddenly find that your friend tells their crush everything but then when you want to know something your friends won't tell you, but then when you ask them why they won't tell a friend they've known for years something that they are telling a new crush, they will reply with the phrase "it's complicated". i have most often found that in all truth, it is NOT complicated and will really only take at most an hour to fully explain. Usually it's only about 5 minutes. So if you don't want to tell someone something that you have told someone else, don't say "it's complicated", say you don't want to tell, then don't mention you've told someone else who you've known for a shorter period of time. It will prevent your old friends from becoming ticked off with you or abandoning you.




Here's the letter thingy: (btw, it is random, i know, dwi)
"I want you to read this, with an open mind. I want you to listen to what I am trying to say without getting mad. I want you to understand how I feel.
I am frustrated and tired with the overbearing treatment I am dealing with; it is becoming highly detrimental to my mental stability and our relationship. You may think it is your duty to help me make decisions, and to tell me how to live my life, I wish to tell you that I believe that that time has passed. I am feeling overly pressured by the constant oppression that you force on me. I really do understand and appreciate all the help that you give me, but I believe that the time has come to let me have a go at making my own decisions. For the last few years, my grades in school have not been the best. This is by my fault, and I understand that, but I believe that your concern for my future has become so great that it is starting to become a large portion of why I am struggling. I hate it when I let you down, it tears me up inside, because I know in my heart that you only want the best for me. I want to do better but it requires a compromise, I propose that the subject of my schooling becomes a matter that concerns only me, and that if I need to stay up at night to complete an assignment, that I am allowed to do so without parental input or supervision. I am feeling smothered in that I have so very little control over my decisions, I merely desire the chance to forge my own way in the world. I strongly believe that if I were to be allowed to try making my own decisions that I would do far better in our relationship and my lifestyle and schooling. You may believe that without your guidance I would dig myself into a hole, but I have found that on the days that I am home alone with no parental influence on my actions, I get far more accomplished than when I am being constantly asked about the completion level of my work. It is frustrating to have no control over how I live and I hope that you can understand that I only want to have a chance. If I find that I am doing worse I will abandon my pride and come to you to ask for guidance, but I desire the chance to do something by my own power for once. Do not think that I wish for you to leave me totally independent, I do depend on your input, but I have become so strained by your expectations for school that your guidance has become counter-productive and detrimental. "

It's stupid, i know, dwi, i don't care if you don't like it, i do. XP

Hello,

hello self, i say self because i know i am the only one bored enough to both read, and write this. First lemme clarify a few things, i am a typical teenager, think MLIA meets FML, I'm somewhere in the middle, just like most other people my age. I am sixteen, and female, if that instantly makes someone back off, fine, i don't care. they can assume this is just another blog about how "amazing" twilight is and how "awesome" there boyfriend is. Sorry, but i do not think twilight is "awesome" and i do not have a boyfriend. Deal with it, i have at least. Well crap, i see i have slipped into writing as thought I'm writing to someone. Well, i guess that's true, i'm writing to myself as though i am a person who does not know me... Whatever. To those who breathed a sigh of relief when they found out i'm not a stereotypical boyfriend obsessed girl, do not relax just yet, i may not be "stereotypical", but i am indeed typical. Therefore, this blog will be about whatever i want it to be, that could very well end up being boys. If u don't like it, don't bash it, just leave. Remember, this is for me, not you, i do not care what you think. (well, i do but since i will pretend that i don't know you i may therefore pretend u have no effect on my life and feel no shame in expressing my thoughts)